The do's and dont's of parenting Twins

Do:

Seek the advice of other mothers with twins. The National Organization of Mothers of Twins Clubs, Inc. (www.nomotc.org) is a support group for parents of twins and multiples. Taking care of one infant can be tough, taking care of two or more could make you feel overloaded. Be sure that you get rest every chance you can because it could be a while before you get a full night of res. Learn as much as you can about caring for twins. There are a variety of parenting books that can give you tips on parenting twins. Expect experiencing negative feelings from time to time. Sometimes parents of twins can have moments when they feel they aren't up to the job of caring for the twins. These feelings will not last. Give each twin alone time with you. It is important that they know from the beginning that they are important as individuals and not just as twins.

Don’t:

Be careful when choosing names. You may not want to choose names for twins that sound alike. It can be difficult for children, especially twins, to learn who they are as people. Since twins, especially identical ones, are often compared it is important for children to learn how they are different from others around them. For the same reason, consider not dressing them alike. Calling by their names and not “the twins” helps them learn who they are. Don't make comparisons between the twins. This can create competition between them. When it is time for them to attend school consider putting them in different classroom. If you have other children, don't forget them. Taking care of twins can take a lot of time and other siblings feel forgotten. Set aside special time regularly to be alone with the other children. Don't forget about yourself or your partner. Try to take a break. You must take care of yourself in order to take care of your children. Source: American Academy of Family Physicians.